Your crash course on getting unstuck and making big, bold, confident decisions

Love It or Leave It will show you the three phases of every leap of faith, taking you from right where you are (even if you have no idea what you want) to big, bold, courageous decisions.

What You'll Do

  • Get clarity on what you want

  • Stop making all your decisions from fear

  • Attract wild, "I can't believe that happened" opportunities

  • Make big, bold, confident, courageous decisions

  • Reduce pressure so you aren't making small, "same same" decisions over and over

  • Leverage what you’re doing now to build a bridge to what’s next, even if you don’t know where that is.

  • Feel proud of yourself, at peace, and true to your soul.

What's Inside

  • Lesson 1: Love It

    In this lesson, you'll build the foundation for a life-changing decision by first taking a strategic pause, using "staying put" as a stepping stone, and creating the space for Big, Magical possibilities.

  • Lesson 2: Leverage It

    Next, you'll learn practical ways to build a bridge from "here" to "there" by leveraging what's good in your life, discover "how" to make a big change by making small ones, and play with a few experiments to test-drive your dreams.

  • Lesson 3: Leave It

    Finally, you'll learn how to master the skill of leaving so you can start your next chapter with no regrets, including how to make powerful decisions about what's next, how to craft an escape plan, and practical steps to take when closing a chapter.

Who This is For

  • You aren’t totally sure what you want, but you have a nagging inner knowing that “this” isn’t it.

  • You have a dream but you have no idea how to make it happen within the confines of your current life and responsibilities.

  • You can't bear where you are, but you can't see any way out.

  • You’re fed up at work, solving problems for everyone else all day (especially people who make more than you) — but there’s a financial gulf between a stable salary and a business that will pay the bills.

  • Your relationship is fine enough to justify staying…. But the secret doubt is there: Is this relationship costing me the life I really want?

  • You're stuck in “I don’t know.” Some days you’re convinced it’s time to move on, and the next day you’re thinking, “Maybe this isn’t so bad.”

Build the foundation for life-changing decisions and leaps of faith

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What's Inside

The basics of how to take a leap of faith, especially when you don't know where to start

    1. Love It: The First Step in Getting from "Here" to "There"

    1. Leverage It: Using "Here" to Get "There"

    1. Leave It: Mastering the Skill of Leaving

    1. Free Bonus: Powerful Thoughts

    2. Now What? Do Whatever You Can to Stay Close to the Magic

    3. Before you go...

About this course

  • $44.00
  • 1.5 hours of video content
  • 3 lessons
  • 3 companion workbooks
  • Bonus: Leap of Faith affirmations

Jessica Ell

Your guide to making hard decisions and taking leaps of faith

Martha Beck Life Coach, Author Jessica Ell

I help people make hard decisions and take leaps of faith toward their best destinies. The journey might seem ill-advised from the outside, and you might not be able to see where you're going at all times, but I promise you're being led exactly where you need to be.

Client Testimonials

My life was "fine" but...

When I started working with Jessica, I was wracked with grief and guilt over whether to end a relationship. Deep down, I knew it had completed its purpose — and it was still financially complicated and emotionally loaded. Both options to either end it or not felt terrible, and I was under massive pressure from my partner and myself to decide. Jessica was the only person who saw more options, including the one I actually wanted that others dismissed as selfish or impossible. It took some harrowing conversations to get there, and she helped me prepare with a level of intention and integrity that put me at complete peace with the process. Six months later, the new version of the relationship is better than I ever could have imagined, and it never would have happened without her.

Maybe this isn't so bad...

Before Love It or Leave It, I was consumed by uncertainty. Some days, I was absolutely convinced that my relationship was over or that I couldn’t take another minute of my job; the next day, I’d think, “maybe this isn’t so bad.” Even though I wanted things to change, the actual unraveling was incredibly stressful. Love It or Leave It gave me a willingness to face my Future Regrets and the courage to move on, even when I wasn’t sure where I was headed. I never could have imagined how it would all unfold, and looking back from the other side, it feels like magic.

Stop settling for what you don't even want

Learn how to build the foundation for life-changing decisions